Momtrepreneurs In 2010: Taking Over The Workforce.

As any New Year brings, this 2010 will wreak plenty of change and growth in our businesses and in us.

I’m pretty sure, though, that this year will be a huge one for us momtrepreneurs.  There are already signs everywhere we turn:

1. At the end of last year, the Wall Street Journal reported that women were nearing the work force majority–as though it was something to be afraid of?

2. The Economist’s January feature is titled, “The Rich World’s Quiet Revolution:  Women Are Gradually Taking Over The Workplace.”

3. Major marketplaces like Startup Nation, Ladies Who Launch, Yahoo’s Shine and more have recently launched (read: put big money behind) “Mompreneur Cafes” and other networking sites where momtrepreneurs can network, share information and resources and see how many other women are doing it.

You can bet that there’s plenty more to come…in the way of forums for momtrepreneurs to do what we do best–gather together and make things happen.  How much am I looking forward to seeing more momtrepreneurs come on board this year?  Very, very much.

Crib Sheet #41: Have Baby Will Travel’s Corinne McDermott.

With the New Year comes my usual list of 359,224 resolutions, the first of which is always to travel with my family more than we do.  And how clever of Corinne–she figured a lot of it out for us!  Thanks to yet another mom full of gumption and the ability to create what was missing for us all, Have Baby Will Travel is the go-to site for our (and our children’s) wanderlust.

What business did you start up?

Have Baby Will Travel – an online guide for family travel with babies & toddlers. It features destination information, useful links and articles, packing lists, and first-hand accounts from parents of trips they’ve taken with their babies and toddlers.

What motivated you to do it?

We wanted to take a family vacation before my first maternity leave was up.  In the early days of motherhood, I found leaving the house a challenge, never mind leaving the country.  I turned to the internet expecting to find a community of like-minded parents hoping to still travel with their baby.  When I couldn’t find a website that could provide all the information I needed, I decided to start one myself!

How many children do you have, and how old are they?

My daughter is 4 and my son is 8 months.

How long have you been running your business?

I launched the website in April of 2007 and re-launched it with a professional design in October of 2008.  Presently I’m in the process of revamping it again!

How long did it take you to start becoming profitable and/or successful, however you choose to measure success?

From the moment we launched I received such favorable and supportive feedback that I knew we were truly on to something.  As traffic continued to increase, we knew it would be worth it to invest a little money into getting it professionally done.

How did your family react to you starting your own business?

When I speak of “we” I mean me and my husband. His unwavering faith in me and my ideas keeps me motivated when I’ve had a tough day or am feeling discouraged.  He found a way to help make this happen, and for that I’m eternally grateful.  He taught himself how to build a website and created the very first incarnation of Have Baby Will Travel on his own!

Easiest part of your job?

Connecting with and helping parents who are planning their first trips with their new families.  If I’m not traveling, I love hearing about other people’s travels!

Hardest part of your job?

Prioritizing tasks that need to be accomplished and still being present for my kids.

What skill would you most like to improve?

Time management! Without a doubt, going into an office everyday made it easier to stay focused.  I do tend to be easily distracted since I’ve been working from home!

What, if any, tools or advice do you wish you knew then that you know now?

I wish I had discovered the value of social media from the start, and not been so tentative about developing relationships with people in complementary businesses.

Can you recommend 3 essential websites for moms in, or going into, business?

Seriously, I’ve learned more in the past 6 months on Twitter than in the past 2.5 years of research.  Twitter has introduced me to a wealth of knowledge from experienced professionals and wonderful personalities.  It can get a bit addictive (hence the time management problems!), but Twitter has taught me so much and made me aware of how much I need to learn.

What is the accomplishment you are most proud of?

For my big giveaway last year, I rounded up all the gear to be featured and pitched the segment to our city’s highest-rated morning television show. It was an exciting couple of weeks!

Favorite part of a typical day?

Call me crazy, but I love our mornings.  It’s a great walk to school to drop off my daughter, and once we’re home my son goes for his nap and I have an hour or so to work.  A lot’s been accomplished by 10am and it feels pretty good.

A few more questions, just because American Express should be featuring more momtrepreneurs…

Childhood ambition…..movie star.
Fondest memory…..
my daughter on the beach for the first time.
Indulgence…..monthly manicures and pedicures – would love to make them bi-weekly one day soon!
Last purchase…..birthday gifts for my daughter.
Favorite magazine…..I LOVED Cookie – I’m so sad it’s gone!
Inspiration…..I’m inspired by my family – I want what’s best for us and that’s what’s best for me.
My Life…..is a work in progress, but I’m headed in the right direction.

A Cup of Cappucino For The Entrepreneur’s Spirit.

Can I throw humility out the window at holiday time?

I was just profiled in a brand new book.  A Cup of Cappucino For The Entrepreneur’s Spirit (Vol II) is now published and on sale thanks to the wonderful folks (especially Cindy Thompson) at Entrepreneur Enterprises.  It’s chock full of stories by and about entrepreneurs of all shapes and sizes.  Makes for an interesting read over the holiday season–you can revv up on your momtrepreneurial spirit by checking out these profiles!

Happy Holidays, all.

Crib Sheet #40: Valslist’s Val Haller.

This musical momtrepreneur has become a tastemaker in the music industry, all because of her devotion to great tunes.  Might I suggest that you check out a playlist on her site and listen while reading this interview?  You will thank Val later.

What business did you start up?

I started a boutique music website, Valslist, that targets the over 25 crowd.   Many in this age group have lost track of music and find it hard to keep up with new music. So Valslist does it for them. We search for the best new artists and introduce you to music you might not find on your own. We collect the best tracks, list them on our site in easy-to-download playlists, and add new music each week to keep you current. We take the hassle out of the music search and help you get great music back into your life and onto your iPod. We’re an iTunes Affiliate, so the format is familiar.

What motivated you to do it?

I’ve been a serious music lover my entire life. I’ve always been the music “go-to person” with my friends. The older I’ve gotten, the more requests for help I’ve gotten, which proved how out of touch with music busy adults get when real life, family, kids, and career start to take over. I thought if I provided a user-friendly website with a great list of the newest music, as well as some vintage oldies sprinkled in, I might help people get back into the music scene, effortlessly. Music is such a part of life, everyone should have it.

How many children do you have, and how old are they?

I have four boys, ages 24, 21, and twin 17-year olds.  They had a lot to do with me starting this business!

How long have you been running your business?

My busines is 2 1/2 years old.  I launched the site in August of 2007.

How long did it take you to start becoming profitable and/or successful, however you choose to measure success?

My website is an iTunes Affiliate – iTunes pays me for every song that I sell on my site. They don’t pay a lot, so my website was never intended to be a big money maker. It is intended to launch my brand.  I’ve gotten a paycheck from iTunes every month since I launched, so people are buying from my site. But the biggest measure of success was when the biggest music analyst in the industry, Bob Lefsetz (an industry favorite) wrote about Valslist.  He touted Valslist as a fresh new idea in a struggling industry. He said I’m a (human) music filter which is necessary because there’s “too much” music out there to weed through, most people don’t know where to start.  He said “whoever owns the filter owns the future of this industry.”   Needless to say, my inbox was jammed the next day by artists, managers, producers, etc. and I’m still catching up a year later!  Very quickly many other opportunities came along; presenting shows, artist interviews for my podcast series, linking with the Lollapalooza Music Festival in my home town of Chicago, etc. The biggest surprise? The day after Lefsetz wrote about me, I received an email from David Gilmour of Pink Floyd who praised my website and my ‘eclectic mix of music’ and asked my permission to use my site as an example for his UK Radio Broadcast Associates!

How did your family react to you starting your own business?

My family has been great, with a few surprises along the way. My husband is in business and is completely behind me, offering ideas and strategy.  My boys are older so I’m obviously not balancing young ones and this – that would be harder, as I’m on my computer in my office all day every day. But some days the boys make comments like, “How many hours have you been on the computer?  You’re in the same place you were 9 hours ago.”  Also, sometimes it’s tricky due to the product I’m selling. Sometimes its awkward when your mom knows more new artists than you do when you’re a college kid.  But all in all they’re very proud of me and support me all the way.

Easiest part of your job?

Listening to music. I’m so lucky to be making a job out of a lifetime passion. I will never ever tire of trying to find the next new artist.

Hardest part of your job?

Two sets of balancing acts:   1)  Stopping the work to get my other things done (household things, meals, kid stuff, other obligations…)  I’m so passionate – almost obsessive about the music that it’s really hard to turn it off!    2) Getting it all done – the business has gotten so busy and multi-faceted, I’m almost running every minute to get things checked off the to do list. I’m dealing with artists, magazines, blogs, doing playlists for those, music things for my community (pro bono), all on top of my marketing strategy – we’re doing an iPhone App and pitching some big businesses now.  I have 5 college interns working for me but it’s busy just to delegate things.   I’m a right brain creative first and foremost:  following a structured business plan is not so easy for my personality type!

What skill would you most like to improve?

Organizing and budgeting my time.  It’s been a huge learning curve coming from being an at-home mom for 21 years, where your day is laid out for you with schedules and obligations with the kids.  Now my day is a clean slate for ME to prioritize;  that’s much harder. Every day I challenge myself to follow my to do list for that day and not deviate!

What, if any, tools or advice do you wish you knew then that you know now?

I wish I knew more about press/news releases: how they’re used and how to write one.  The PR and marketing aspects of the business are the most challenging for me. Not that I don’t like them or understand their importance and role in my success, but rather, they exhaust me!  I LOVE the creative side of the marketing – and think I’m pretty good at it – but the PR side is way too busy for me – I’d much rather hire that part out!

What is the accomplishment you are most proud of?

I had an idea for a business and made it happen. I want Valslist to become a household name for finding great music, and my brand exposure is growing every day.  The fact that it’s an internet business is even a bigger deal for me: I’m 52 and didn’t grow up in the cyberworld, but I’ve learned something new every day and I’m not afraid to say yes and try new things.

Favorite part of a typical day?

Sitting down to plan my workday. I’m like a kid at Christmas. Every facet of my business excites me because the sky is the limit. The music industry is really struggling; it’s a great time to have a fresh new idea.  But in the end, my biggest thrill  is knowing that somewhere out there I’m helping a busy person find new music – effortlessly – and I know how good music makes them feel.

Anything else I should have asked you that you should answer?

I need to give accolades to my husband for supporting my endeavor because I don’t have to pay the rent with my Valslist paycheck; it makes it a more stress free startup.  For some who do need to support themselves, a startup is trickier.

A few more questions, just because American Express should be featuring more momtrepreneurs…

Childhood ambition….to have my own business – something creative.
Fondest memory….the birth of each of my kids.
Indulgence….to sit and read (type A’s rarely do this!).
Last purchase…..skinny leg jeans to wear with boots.
Favorite magazine…..MORE and Architectural Digest :)
Inspiration…..life outside the box: discovering the new.
My Life…..and everything in it is a gift that I appreciate more every day.

Read This E-Book.

My favorite marketing genius, Seth Godin, has posted a free e-book for all to download.  I highly recommend that you download it. (Look for the “Download PDF FREE” button).

It’s a huge collection of thoughts on things to do and think about this year…a nice recap from some serious players in the blogging world.  Enjoy.

Miscellaneous Momtrepreneur Moments.

I think most moms occasionally have those moments where we think, “Why on earth did I sign up for this?”  And most momtrepreneurs have moments of wanting to trade our crazy juggling acts for regular, normal jobs.  This week I had a day that combined the worst of both – I had a day of nonstop appointments and needed to get my paperwork together, but right before school started, I had to take my younger son to an emergency orthodontist appointment to have his spring re-attached – for the 27th time, I believe.  Since I’d thought it would be fairly quick, I hadn’t brought work to do, so I ended up having 45 minutes to thumb through outdated issues of People.  (And while I appreciate knowing why Jon & Kate split up, I still had other things I needed to do!)  I was already crabby as I drove Ben back to school, so it didn’t help when he announced, “Oh, Mom, you
need to bring my dress clothes to school, it’s final rehearsal for the drama team play.”  As we waited in the office to sign him back in,  I envisioned frantically hunting through Ben’s room, having to reach behind the rat cage for his crumpled white shirt, and meanwhile my son stood as far away from me as humanly possible, since of course 8th graders would rather die than publicly acknowledge the existence of parental units.

We walked out at the same time, with me prepared to make an anonymous exit, and suddenly Ben came up to me and said, “Mom, sorry about that, but there were some cool kids in the office and it’s sort of embarrassing to have your mother at school.”  I said I understood, turned to leave (of course, without doing anything really embarrassing like waving or kissing him), and then Ben called out, quite audibly, “Bye, Mom, I love you!”

Needless to say, I barely made it to the car before I burst into tears.  That one, unexpected gift made up for the 45 minutes at the orthodontist’s–in fact, it made up for the $400 band trip fee, the nights I sat up with him when he had the stomach flu, and even the 12 hours of labor.   What a great reminder of why I made the choices I’ve made – if I had a ‘regular’ job and a nanny to handle all my tedious tasks, I would have missed a wonderful moment.  (On the other hand, I wouldn’t have minded letting a nanny look for the dress shirt and clean up around the rat cage . . . oh well.)  And if I’d never had kids, I wouldn’t know how it feels to cry with joy because a 13-year-old said something to me that didn’t begin with “Mom, I need . . . . . “

Sometimes being a momtrepreneur really is the best job in the world!

-Lauren Mayer, The Psycho SuperMomtrepreneur

Start, Run & Grow Your Business.

Palo Alto Software let me try out their business tool program, Start, Run & Grow.  This clever business kit includes a variety of “essential tools to build your business.”  They offer links to sites and companies that help with tracking your time, bookkeeping software, payroll guides, managing customer emails, and plenty more.  There are a lot of discounts to these different offerings through using Start, Run & Grow–a lot of which can be very useful, especially for you starter-uppers.

I’d asked the company, once I perused the program, if I was missing something–I didn’t know if there was an interactive portion along with the site recommendations.  They said:  “The idea behind this particular product came from our customers. We knew from our popular resource section in Business Plan Pro that people were looking for services and products they could trust and would be essential to their business success.  So, we contacted several existing partners and quite a few new ones to put together a “tool box” of offers – free and discounted – to help small and medium businesses. We grouped them into sections we thought would be more helpful for different advents of a business. Those starting out, those running a business and those in a growth mode.”

How clever are they?  I obviously needed the “grow” section of their program and found myself clicking away throughout it.

The downside to investing in a program like this appeared initially to be that I would only use 1/3rd of their offerings–but as I started thinking about it, I clicked on the “start” section and noticed an abundance of opportunities that I hadn’t considered when I did start my companies.  (An eye-opener, really).

Do you want to try a copy?  The three people to post a comment here about one of the links in this post will be mailed a FREE copy!

Crib Sheet #39: One Tiny Suitcase’s Stacey Corbett.

Why didn’t I know about this business when my kiddo was a baby??  I’d have moved to Canada immediately had I known.  Kudos to Stacey for creating a company to serve every new mom in need.

What business did you start up?

One Tiny Suitcase – a baby equipment rental company serving clients in Calgary & Edmonton, Alberta in Canada .

What motivated you to do it?

Traveling with my twins when they were just babies made me realize how unrealistic it was to be able to bring all the gear we needed with us. I wish there had been a company like mine when I traveled to visit my parents.

How many children do you have, and how old are they?

My twins (boy/girl) are 5 now.

How long have you been running your business?

My business opened in May 2006 and I am now starting my 4th year in business.

How long did it take you to start becoming profitable and/or successful, however you choose to measure success?

My rate of growth has been in direct relation to how old my children are. I started the business in part so that I could be home with them. I couldn’t grow the business as fast as I wanted to then, but now that they are starting school I have been able to do things like open a second location, expand my product range, etc. One Tiny Suitcase was profitable after the first 2 years of running it very part time.

How did your family react to you starting your own business?

I don’t come from a family of entrepreneurs and I left what my dad considered a really good job (good pay, pension, etc.). In the end, my family supported my decision to try and create a business that supported my desire to stay at home with the twins for as long as I could. There have been ups and downs but I know I can always count on my family to help me out when the hiccups happen.

Easiest part of your job?

The best part: talking to excited families about their upcoming family vacations. Grandparents are always so excited when they have a baby coming to stay with them, too.

Hardest part of your job?

The hardest part: running a home-based business, I have some customers that pick up gear from me directly. Making sure the dog, kids and husband are quiet when someone is at my door as well as having the house clean and presentable is tough.

What skill would you most like to improve?

My sales skills! I have a hard time really ‘selling’. I like talking to my customers and making recommendations for gear I think would help them enjoy their vacation but there isn’t a lot of ‘up-selling’ going on. My customers appreciate that I am a mom as well and can relate to the stress of traveling with young children.

What, if any, tools or advice do you wish you knew then that you know now?

In the beginning I kept telling myself that I would ‘try’ running this business. I always wanted to give myself a way out if things didn’t work as expected. I know now that as long as you are willing to change and adapt when plans don’t go as you thought they would, you can be successful. The ideal business I pictured in my mind when I started is not the business I am running today but that ‘imaginary’ business just wasn’t profitable.  If I had stuck to that ‘ideal’ I would be out of business today.

Can you recommend 3 essential websites for moms in, or going into, business?

BizyMoms.com
Lisa Druxman’s column on being a Momtrepreneur
TheMompreneur.com – Calgary’s local resource for everything mom and business.

What is the accomplishment you are most proud of?

I’m really proud of some of the press coverage I been able to get for One Tiny Suitcase. My kids have been able to participate in some of the television and print coverage. They are always so impressed when they see pictures of themselves on TV or in the newspaper. That’s cool! Getting PR coverage is hard work but that hard work has resulted in a lot of free advertising I could have never afforded.

Favorite part of a typical day?

Typical? There is nothing typical about a day running One Tiny Suitcase, raising twins, preparing meals, cleaning the house, walking the dog. I like the unpredictability of each day.  I wouldn’t have it any other way.

A few more questions, just because American Express should be featuring more momtrepreneurs…

Childhood ambition….to become a lawyer.
Fondest memory….finding out my husband and I were having twins.
Indulgence….my dog walkers, they help keep me (and my dog) sane during the week.
Last purchase…..expensive facial cream (on Ebay).
Favorite magazine…..In Style, totally not work-related, full of stilettos I will never wear, and a great escape.
Inspiration…..successful entrepreneurs who have made it big.
My Life…is going in the exact direction I want it to. My goals are in sight!

Chronicling The Conference.

So I have this crazy idea.

I’m nine months pregnant with my second child, am still busy running my businesses, and I have decided to add more work to my giant pile of work.  Since I’m often asked, “How do you do it all?” I thought I would take this opportunity to chronicle my experience putting together my first national conference.

There, I said it.  (The more I say it, the crazier it sounds and the more excited I get.  Perhaps I need a therapist.)

Sure, I have enough going on with my business responsibilities, nevermind my two-year old constantly interfering.  But I know that this conference is a great idea.  Necessary, really.

It all began when I organized a neighborhood Meetup in the hopes of meeting 5-10 fellow momtrepreneurs to discuss the trials and tribulations of our lives over coffee.  It’s been less than a year and the group now has 120 members (!!!).  That number is not a typo.  In the middle of Illinois I’ve found that there are an incredible number of momtrepreneurs who have been thrilled to come together and talk about work/life.  As we neared the 100-member mark in the middle of flyover country, it occurred to me that there must be many more momtrepreneurs around the nation—and we needed an event that would bring us together.

Because I want to create awareness about The Momtrepreneur Exchange, and because I want to solicit as many ideas from you as possible to make this the best conference ever, I am going to chronicle my activites as I put together this massive event.  Please join me, and let me know what you think along the way.

Crib Sheet #38: BearHugs Unlimited’s Ymke Dioquino.

This horse-riding momtrepreneur created a nifty product that was in such high demand from her community, she just had to make it her business!

What business did you start up?

BearHugs Unlimited.  I produce and sell the BearHug, a 3-in-1 Kids Blanket.

What motivated you to do it?

The incessant requests from neighborhood families for a BearHug after I made the initial ones for my own kids…and my husband…

How many children do you have, and how old are they?

Three. The oldest is a girl, 12, then a boy, 9.  Our youngest is also a boy, 4.

How long have you been running your business?

Since June of 2006.

How long did it take you to start becoming profitable and/or successful, however you choose to measure success?

Quite a while, I must say, as my growth had to happen during a recession!

How did your family react to you starting your own business?

They were the ones pushing me to do it! I think the kids thought it was pretty cool.

Easiest part of your job?

The creative process.

Hardest part of your job?

Selling.

What skill would you most like to improve?

A ‘take-no-prisoners’, ‘eye-on-the-ball’ zest for the Big Sale.

Can you recommend 3 essential websites for moms in, or going into, business?

I love the community and support of Citymommy.com, WorkitMom.com and hatchnetwork.com.

What is the accomplishment you are most proud of?

The design of the BearHug.

Favorite part of a typical day?

I feel so moved when a parent emails me with their kids’ reaction to the Hug!

A few more questions, just because American Express should be featuring more momtrepreneurs…

Childhood ambition…..to be happy.
Fondest memory…..riding my horse through the forest on a fall morning.
Indulgence…..my daily soap opera!
Last purchase….. fabric for my kids’ Halloween costumes.
Inspiration…..nature, music, people.
My Life…..is full of surprises, occasional detours, love, wisdom, pain, beauty.

BearHugs